"I am not a perfect mother. Often I struggle with impatience; sometimes I lack the enthusiasm I long for. I make many mistakes, just like my children. As they are maturing as children, I am maturing as a mother... We need to equip ourselves with practical tools that allow us to give our personal best to our young children, helping us thrive in our strengths and overcome our weaknesses. We aim for professionalism in every other area of our lives; why should our children get anything less?"
This month I had the extreme pleasure of reviewing the book Steady Days: A Journey Toward Intentional, Professional Motherhood, by Jamie C. Martin. The quote above is from the beginning of the book, setting the stage for an exploration of what it takes to be a professional mother.
There is one message that rings out strong and clear throughout the entirety of Steady Days and it is this... mothering requires intentionality. To maintain peace and order, we must be purposeful about how we achieve that. To maintain our enthusiasm, we must plan activities and encouragement into our days that inspire us. To capture memories and special moments with our children, we must have a plan for what we will do and how we will remember what we've enjoyed and experienced.
Over and over again, this one thought. To be successful in achieving my goals as a mother, I must be intentional. Purposeful. Prepared. Well-planned. Goal-oriented.
Let's face it. It can be easy to go on auto-pilot as a mom. Sometimes our days are so full and overwhelming that we just go with the flow, without being intentional about how we are spending these precious years with our children.
As a home educating mother, I make more of an effort to be intentional about how I educate my children, what learning resources I expose them to, how many books we read, etc. And yet, throughout the rest of my day I can sometimes get so focused on other aspects of my roles as mother, wife, homemaker and more that I cease to be purposeful about all the other realms of my mothering.
If you can relate to what I'm saying, I think that you would be blessed by Steady Days. Jamie is encouraging and upbeat, and yet consistently challenging us to consider how we are doing things, what our motivations are, what could be changed, how we could grow as mothers.
A few other practical things I loved:
- Short, simple chapters. If bite-sized is what you need to make it through a book and really implement its strategies, then you will just love how Jamie has organized Steady Days into 40 short chapters.
- Steady Days Planner. This is Jamie's version of a homemaking binder, and she has so many wonderful suggestions for adding to it. A few that I was particularly inspired by were a Steady Blessings page (for recording our blessings, special moments, thoughts of gratefulness), Special Date Organizer, Shopping Lists, and Children's Goals. Many of the particular pages she discusses and shows throughout the book can actually be found on her website, at http://www.steadydays.com/resources.html.
- Room Time. A clever technique for achieving a bit of quiet time for Mom to get some things done, while each child plays/reads productively in their own space (no more sibling squabbles, at least for 20-30 minutes!). Love it!
Final thoughts: I really enjoyed this book and I know that I will reference it again and again. I love Jamie's encouragement to just implement new things or small changes bit by bit. For moms who are feeling overwhelmed and in need of someone to help you get more organized and intentional in your mothering, Steady Days is for you!
To get to know Jamie a little better and find more tips, strategies and thoughts for bringing steadiness and professionalism to your days, you can find her at her blog, Steady Mom.
Would you like to win a signed copy of Steady Days: A Journey Towards Intentional, Professional Motherhood?
Here's how:
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- Tell me why you need to read this book, or a goal that you have for your mothering.
- Visit Jamie's blog, Steady Mom, and leave a comment.
- Subscribe to Steady Mom.
- Follow her on twitter, @steadymom.
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- Post about this giveaway on your own blog, and leave me the url.
Giveaway ends Friday, January 29th at 3:00pm. This giveaway has now finished. :)
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I’m already a follower of Keeper of the Home on Twitter.
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I’m already subscribed to Keeper of the Home.
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I am now following Steady Mom on Twitter!
I just left a comment on Steady Mom’s blog!
I want the little time I have to raise my children to be done on purpose. I want to train them not only in the Bible, but also in life skills. So many people have no clue in this area. I don’t want my children to be lacking.
I just wrote a post on this review! Here’s the link:
http://jennifer-asag.blogspot.com/2010/01/book-giveaway-steady-days-journey.html
I subscribed to Steady Mom!
I’d love a new encouraging mommy read!
i follow you on twitter
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i sub to you thru email
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well God brought this giveaway at the right time! i am redefining some of our family goals and this is a huge area i am working on so this book would be a blessing.
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I would love to have this book because somedays (actually many this week) I felt like I couldn’t handle my children and the house. My children are only 15 months apart and that has been really hard for especially since my daughter really needs lots and lots of attention.
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with baby number 4 arriving within the next few weeks, this will be a way to keep me encouraged and give me new ideas…i have been reading your blog for about 1 1/2 years now…i really enjoy it…thank you and God bless.
This book sounds like it would be so practical for my life and give me focus as I mother my four children, age 6 and under!
I subscribe to Steady Mom’s blog!
I subscribe to your blog! :)
I subscribe to you and so enjoy your blog.
I would enjoy this book as I have hit a season where I am needing encouragement. I am so blessed but the bigness of each day has left me weary and needing to refocus.
I subscribe to Keeper of the Home, too! :)
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I subscribe to Steady Mom!
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I am eagerly awaiting this book! It sounds as if it was written EXACTLY for me….sometimes I do feel like I’m on auto-pilot and I really would like to focus more on intentional parenting.
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Just signed up to follow Steady Mom.
Visited Steady Mom blog. I love the 8 things I learned from my 2 year old post.
I would love to win this book to learn how to become the mother I am not. I feel like I get the start of a plan and do not follow through. I would love to be a mother who is organized and has a plan and follows through!
I love the concept! Some days I have it together- most I don’t feel like I do. I would love some encouragement and practical application.
I follow you on Twitter
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I follow Jamie on twitter
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I commented at Steady Mom – 30 minute blog challenge (that I’m intimidated by!)
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I need this book because I am everything OTHER than “steady” in my parenting!
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i subscribed to your blog just last week. does that count? :)
i subscribed to steady mom.
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i visited steady mom and left a comment.
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i would love to read this book! i have two littles (two years, and five months) and feel like the days get away from me without having accomplished anything. i know that i want to be intentional, i guess i’m just not always sure how during this season.
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I am following Steady Mom on twitter!
I am following you on twitter!
I am a subscriber to Steady Mom!
I am a subscriber to Keeper of the Home!
The Lord has been helping me to re-prioritize my time the last few months. With my blessings of 3, 2, and 10 months he is showing me that they are where my time needs to be! I would love to read this book to get some help in being intentional with every moment I have with my children. The time is going so fast!
Hope this one gets through – I keep getting a flag notice when I comment. I’m subscribing to Jamie’s blog (already sub. to yours =)
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I’ve been drooling over this one for a few weeks =) Love Jamie’s blog – only just discovered it.
The concept of “purposefulness” could summarize what God has been teaching me this past year. My mothering has taken on a new peace. It’s amazing what being intentional can do, not only for your children, but for yourself. Instead of letting the days happen to me, I’ve realized that simply by choosing to not let that happen, I change the day completely. When I claim each hour, suddenly I have energy and direction, and my children pick up on that in an amazing way.
Thanks for another great giveaway, Stephanie.
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This book sounds like it would be very helpful in giving me more purposeful direction to my days and intentional planning for my son.
I’m following @steadymom on twitter.
I subscribe to your blog.
I follow you on twitter. (eesha912)
Being intentional with my days is a constant goal of mine. I heard a quote somewhere “Live every day as if it were on purpose.” I want to be proactive and not reactive with my kids.
I subscribe to your blog!
I’m curious about her take on “professional” mothering. That isn’t an association we see very often, unfortunately!
I subscribe to Steady Mom!
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One of my biggest goals as a mother is to be intentional. It’s so easy to fly by the seat of your pants and react to everything that happens on a given day.
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