Steady Days: Book Review and Giveaway

by Stephanie @ Keeper of the Home on January 25, 10

in Books, Giveaways, Mothering, Reviews

"I am not a perfect mother. Often I struggle with impatience; sometimes I lack the enthusiasm I long for. I make many mistakes, just like my children. As they are maturing as children, I am maturing as a mother... We need to equip ourselves with practical tools that allow us to give our personal best to our young children, helping us thrive in our strengths and overcome our weaknesses. We aim for professionalism in every other area of our lives; why should our children get anything less?"

Infused_Cover_Color_smlThis month I had the extreme pleasure of reviewing the book Steady Days: A Journey Toward Intentional, Professional Motherhood, by Jamie C. Martin. The quote above is from the beginning of the book, setting the stage for an exploration of what it takes to be a professional mother.

There is one message that rings out strong and clear throughout the entirety of Steady Days and it is this... mothering requires intentionality. To maintain peace and order, we must be purposeful about how we achieve that. To maintain our enthusiasm, we must plan activities and encouragement into our days that inspire us. To capture memories and special moments with our children, we must have a plan for what we will do and how we will remember what we've enjoyed and experienced.

Over and over again, this one thought. To be successful in achieving my goals as a mother, I must be intentional. Purposeful. Prepared. Well-planned. Goal-oriented.

Let's face it. It can be easy to go on auto-pilot as a mom. Sometimes our days are so full and overwhelming that we just go with the flow, without being intentional about how we are spending these precious years with our children.

As a home educating mother, I make more of an effort to be intentional about how I educate my children, what learning resources I expose them to, how many books we read, etc.  And yet, throughout the rest of my day I can sometimes get so focused on other aspects of my roles as mother, wife, homemaker and more that I cease to be purposeful about all the other realms of my mothering.

If you can relate to what I'm saying, I think that you would be blessed by Steady Days. Jamie is encouraging and upbeat, and yet consistently challenging us to consider how we are doing things, what our motivations are, what could be changed, how we could grow as mothers.

Jamie reading to her 3 sweet children

Jamie reading to her 3 sweet children

A few other practical things I loved:

  • Short, simple chapters. If bite-sized is what you need to make it through a book and really implement its strategies, then you will just love how Jamie has organized Steady Days into 40 short chapters.
  • Steady Days Planner. This is Jamie's version of a homemaking binder, and she has so many wonderful suggestions for adding to it. A few that I was particularly inspired by were a Steady Blessings page (for recording our blessings, special moments, thoughts of gratefulness), Special Date Organizer, Shopping Lists, and Children's Goals. Many of the particular pages she discusses and shows throughout the book can actually be found on her website, at http://www.steadydays.com/resources.html.
  • Room Time. A clever technique for achieving a bit of quiet time for Mom to get some things done, while each child plays/reads productively in their own space (no more sibling squabbles, at least for 20-30 minutes!). Love it!

Final thoughts: I really enjoyed this book and I know that I will reference it again and again. I love Jamie's encouragement to just implement new things or small changes bit by bit. For moms who are feeling overwhelmed and in need of someone to help you get more organized and intentional in your mothering, Steady Days is for you!

To get to know Jamie a little better and find more tips, strategies and thoughts for bringing steadiness and professionalism to your days, you can find her at her blog, Steady Mom.

Would you like to win a signed copy of Steady Days: A Journey Towards Intentional, Professional Motherhood?

Here's how:

(Please leave each entry as a SEPARATE comment, to ensure that they are all counted. Thanks for making my job easier!)

  1. Tell me why you need to read this book, or a goal that you have for your mothering.
  2. Visit Jamie's blog, Steady Mom, and leave a comment.
  3. Subscribe to Steady Mom.
  4. Follow her on twitter, @steadymom.
  5. Subscribe to Keeper of the Home.
  6. Follow me on twitter, @keeperhome.
  7. Post about this giveaway on your own blog, and leave me the url.

Giveaway ends Friday, January 29th at 3:00pm. This giveaway has now finished. :)

About Stephanie @ Keeper of the Home


Stephanie Langford has a passion for sharing ideas and information for homemakers who want to make healthy changes in their homes, and carefully steward all that they've been given. She has written two books geared to helping families live more naturally and eat real, whole foods, without being overwhelmed and without going broke. She is the editor and author of Keeper of the Home.

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    Jennifer January 26, 2010 at 6:03 am

    I’m already a follower of Keeper of the Home on Twitter.
    .-= Jennifer´s last blog ..Book Giveaway: Steady Days, A Journey Toward Intentional, Professional Motherhood =-.

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    Jennifer January 26, 2010 at 6:03 am

    I’m already subscribed to Keeper of the Home.
    .-= Jennifer´s last blog ..Book Giveaway: Steady Days, A Journey Toward Intentional, Professional Motherhood =-.

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    Jennifer January 26, 2010 at 6:02 am

    I am now following Steady Mom on Twitter!

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    Jennifer January 26, 2010 at 6:00 am

    I just left a comment on Steady Mom’s blog!

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    Jennifer Barker January 26, 2010 at 5:56 am

    I want the little time I have to raise my children to be done on purpose. I want to train them not only in the Bible, but also in life skills. So many people have no clue in this area. I don’t want my children to be lacking.

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    Jennifer Barker January 26, 2010 at 5:54 am
    Erin S January 26, 2010 at 5:33 am

    I subscribed to Steady Mom!

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    rebecca m January 25, 2010 at 10:26 pm

    I’d love a new encouraging mommy read!

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    Tami Lewis January 25, 2010 at 9:30 pm

    i follow you on twitter
    .-= Tami Lewis´s last blog ..Frigidaire and Save the Children =-.

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    Tami Lewis January 25, 2010 at 9:30 pm

    i sub to you thru email
    .-= Tami Lewis´s last blog ..Frigidaire and Save the Children =-.

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    Tami Lewis January 25, 2010 at 9:29 pm

    well God brought this giveaway at the right time! i am redefining some of our family goals and this is a huge area i am working on so this book would be a blessing.
    .-= Tami Lewis´s last blog ..Frigidaire and Save the Children =-.

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    Felicia Eis January 25, 2010 at 9:19 pm

    I would love to have this book because somedays (actually many this week) I felt like I couldn’t handle my children and the house. My children are only 15 months apart and that has been really hard for especially since my daughter really needs lots and lots of attention.
    .-= Felicia Eis ´s last blog ..Current Discounts for eShakti: An Upcoming Review =-.

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    Karen January 25, 2010 at 8:25 pm

    with baby number 4 arriving within the next few weeks, this will be a way to keep me encouraged and give me new ideas…i have been reading your blog for about 1 1/2 years now…i really enjoy it…thank you and God bless.

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    Melanie January 25, 2010 at 8:20 pm

    This book sounds like it would be so practical for my life and give me focus as I mother my four children, age 6 and under!

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    Melanie January 25, 2010 at 8:19 pm

    I subscribe to Steady Mom’s blog!

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    Melanie January 25, 2010 at 8:18 pm

    I subscribe to your blog! :)

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    Julie C January 25, 2010 at 8:08 pm

    I subscribe to you and so enjoy your blog.

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    Julie C January 25, 2010 at 8:07 pm

    I would enjoy this book as I have hit a season where I am needing encouragement. I am so blessed but the bigness of each day has left me weary and needing to refocus.

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    Cara January 25, 2010 at 7:50 pm

    I subscribe to Keeper of the Home, too! :)
    .-= Cara´s last blog ..Good Reads: Into the Wilderness, by Sara Donati =-.

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    Cara January 25, 2010 at 7:50 pm

    I subscribe to Steady Mom!
    .-= Cara´s last blog ..Good Reads: Into the Wilderness, by Sara Donati =-.

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    Cara January 25, 2010 at 7:49 pm

    I am eagerly awaiting this book! It sounds as if it was written EXACTLY for me….sometimes I do feel like I’m on auto-pilot and I really would like to focus more on intentional parenting.
    .-= Cara´s last blog ..Good Reads: Into the Wilderness, by Sara Donati =-.

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    Shelly January 25, 2010 at 7:06 pm

    Just signed up to follow Steady Mom.

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    Shelly January 25, 2010 at 7:05 pm

    Visited Steady Mom blog. I love the 8 things I learned from my 2 year old post.

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    Kim P. January 25, 2010 at 6:45 pm

    I would love to win this book to learn how to become the mother I am not. I feel like I get the start of a plan and do not follow through. I would love to be a mother who is organized and has a plan and follows through!

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    Michelle January 25, 2010 at 6:18 pm

    I love the concept! Some days I have it together- most I don’t feel like I do. I would love some encouragement and practical application.

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    Katie @ Kitchen Stewardship January 25, 2010 at 5:59 pm

    I follow you on Twitter
    .-= Katie @ Kitchen Stewardship´s last blog ..Monday Mission: Healthy Upgrades – Real Food Recipe Renditions =-.

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    Katie @ Kitchen Stewardship January 25, 2010 at 5:58 pm

    I follow Jamie on twitter
    .-= Katie @ Kitchen Stewardship´s last blog ..Monday Mission: Healthy Upgrades – Real Food Recipe Renditions =-.

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    Katie @ Kitchen Stewardship January 25, 2010 at 5:52 pm

    I commented at Steady Mom – 30 minute blog challenge (that I’m intimidated by!)
    .-= Katie @ Kitchen Stewardship´s last blog ..Monday Mission: Healthy Upgrades – Real Food Recipe Renditions =-.

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    Katie @ Kitchen Stewardship January 25, 2010 at 5:50 pm

    I subscribe to Kof the H
    .-= Katie @ Kitchen Stewardship´s last blog ..Monday Mission: Healthy Upgrades – Real Food Recipe Renditions =-.

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    Katie @ Kitchen Stewardship January 25, 2010 at 5:49 pm

    I need this book because I am everything OTHER than “steady” in my parenting!
    .-= Katie @ Kitchen Stewardship´s last blog ..Monday Mission: Healthy Upgrades – Real Food Recipe Renditions =-.

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    katherine January 25, 2010 at 5:49 pm

    i subscribed to your blog just last week. does that count? :)

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    katherine January 25, 2010 at 5:48 pm

    i subscribed to steady mom.
    .-= katherine´s last blog ..meet me in…atlanta? =-.

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    katherine January 25, 2010 at 5:48 pm

    i visited steady mom and left a comment.
    .-= katherine´s last blog ..meet me in…atlanta? =-.

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    katherine January 25, 2010 at 5:47 pm

    i would love to read this book! i have two littles (two years, and five months) and feel like the days get away from me without having accomplished anything. i know that i want to be intentional, i guess i’m just not always sure how during this season.
    .-= katherine´s last blog ..meet me in…atlanta? =-.

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    April January 25, 2010 at 5:41 pm

    I am following Steady Mom on twitter!

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    April January 25, 2010 at 5:41 pm

    I am following you on twitter!

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    April January 25, 2010 at 5:39 pm

    I am a subscriber to Steady Mom!

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    April January 25, 2010 at 5:37 pm

    I am a subscriber to Keeper of the Home!

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    April January 25, 2010 at 5:37 pm

    The Lord has been helping me to re-prioritize my time the last few months. With my blessings of 3, 2, and 10 months he is showing me that they are where my time needs to be! I would love to read this book to get some help in being intentional with every moment I have with my children. The time is going so fast!

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    Amanda January 25, 2010 at 5:36 pm

    Hope this one gets through – I keep getting a flag notice when I comment. I’m subscribing to Jamie’s blog (already sub. to yours =)
    .-= Amanda´s last blog ..One of my favorite authors… =-.

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    Amanda January 25, 2010 at 5:35 pm

    I’ve been drooling over this one for a few weeks =) Love Jamie’s blog – only just discovered it.

    The concept of “purposefulness” could summarize what God has been teaching me this past year. My mothering has taken on a new peace. It’s amazing what being intentional can do, not only for your children, but for yourself. Instead of letting the days happen to me, I’ve realized that simply by choosing to not let that happen, I change the day completely. When I claim each hour, suddenly I have energy and direction, and my children pick up on that in an amazing way.

    Thanks for another great giveaway, Stephanie.
    .-= Amanda´s last blog ..One of my favorite authors… =-.

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    Vanessa January 25, 2010 at 5:02 pm

    This book sounds like it would be very helpful in giving me more purposeful direction to my days and intentional planning for my son.

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    Risha January 25, 2010 at 4:44 pm

    I’m following @steadymom on twitter.

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    Risha January 25, 2010 at 4:43 pm

    I subscribe to your blog.

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    Risha January 25, 2010 at 4:43 pm

    I follow you on twitter. (eesha912)

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    Risha January 25, 2010 at 4:42 pm

    Being intentional with my days is a constant goal of mine. I heard a quote somewhere “Live every day as if it were on purpose.” I want to be proactive and not reactive with my kids.

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    Laura January 25, 2010 at 4:22 pm

    I subscribe to your blog!

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    Laura January 25, 2010 at 4:22 pm

    I’m curious about her take on “professional” mothering. That isn’t an association we see very often, unfortunately!

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    Sandra January 25, 2010 at 3:36 pm

    I subscribe to Steady Mom!
    .-= Sandra´s last blog ..8 Things I Still Don’t Know About Boys =-.

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    Erica January 25, 2010 at 3:35 pm

    One of my biggest goals as a mother is to be intentional. It’s so easy to fly by the seat of your pants and react to everything that happens on a given day.

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