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	<title>Comments on: Carrying Burdens That Don&#8217;t Belong to Us</title>
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		<title>By: Gretchen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gretchen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 19:59:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for this post.  I have a 5 month old baby (my third) and I felt the exact same way.  I think I will print out a list like this to help my priorities, especially during this &quot;busy&quot; season.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this post.  I have a 5 month old baby (my third) and I felt the exact same way.  I think I will print out a list like this to help my priorities, especially during this "busy" season.</p>
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		<title>By: Brittney Colyer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brittney Colyer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2009 15:35:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. This is totally something I would benefit from!!! I am a &#039;do-er&#039; and like to accomplish things during the day and to use my time wisely - however I only have one kiddo right now so I can see how you would feel like this with 3 kids!! I think I would like to do this as well. Thank you for sharing :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. This is totally something I would benefit from!!! I am a 'do-er' and like to accomplish things during the day and to use my time wisely - however I only have one kiddo right now so I can see how you would feel like this with 3 kids!! I think I would like to do this as well. Thank you for sharing <img src='http://www.keeperofthehome.org/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Hallee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hallee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 11:39:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like your list, but one thing that is important - so very important - and something that busy moms tend to leave on the wayside - is our husbands.  I imagine that because your husband made the list that he didn&#039;t put himself as a priority between God and your children, but that is where he needs to be.  Even in a life as busy as some of us struggle with, taking thirty seconds to write him a quick &quot;I love you&quot; email to stopping what you&#039;re doing to snuggle with him on the couch, loving him and abiding in him daily should be a top priority on that list.

Resentment will eventually grow and marriages will eventually suffer if home and children constantly and continually take precedence over your mate.  It&#039;s something that women tend to not be taught, but it is, sadly, a lesson that is often learned.
.-= Hallee´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.halleethehomemaker.com/2009/11/a-christian-response-to-vampire-obsession/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A Christian Response to Vampire Obsession&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like your list, but one thing that is important - so very important - and something that busy moms tend to leave on the wayside - is our husbands.  I imagine that because your husband made the list that he didn't put himself as a priority between God and your children, but that is where he needs to be.  Even in a life as busy as some of us struggle with, taking thirty seconds to write him a quick "I love you" email to stopping what you're doing to snuggle with him on the couch, loving him and abiding in him daily should be a top priority on that list.</p>
<p>Resentment will eventually grow and marriages will eventually suffer if home and children constantly and continually take precedence over your mate.  It's something that women tend to not be taught, but it is, sadly, a lesson that is often learned.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Hallee´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.halleethehomemaker.com/2009/11/a-christian-response-to-vampire-obsession/" rel="nofollow">A Christian Response to Vampire Obsession</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.keeperofthehome.org/wp/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Christy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 03:03:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I needed to hear that, especially after the rollercoaster week I&#039;ve had. I homeschool my children, am pregnant with boy #5, and my dh is deployed and won&#039;t be home until after the baby is born. I constantly struggle with my own expectations and have been feeling angry all week over the smallest things. Of course, it has rubbed off on my sons and has made for a very chaotic week.  The Lord uses people and blogs :) to get messages through. Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I needed to hear that, especially after the rollercoaster week I've had. I homeschool my children, am pregnant with boy #5, and my dh is deployed and won't be home until after the baby is born. I constantly struggle with my own expectations and have been feeling angry all week over the smallest things. Of course, it has rubbed off on my sons and has made for a very chaotic week.  The Lord uses people and blogs <img src='http://www.keeperofthehome.org/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  to get messages through. Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Stephanie @ Keeper of the Home</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephanie @ Keeper of the Home</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:42:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-29897&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Sarah&lt;/a&gt;, Well, this week I&#039;ve been fitting my times with the Lord in wherever I can. I&#039;m sick and am struggling through the day, let alone getting up early. 

But usually, I try to get up a minimum of 1 hour before the kids (not necessarily before they wake, but before they&#039;re allowed out of bed- we&#039;ve trained them to stay in their room until they&#039;re allowed out). That 1 hour gives me time to shower/dress, do devotions, exercise (3x a week) and just feel settled before everyone else is up. I struggle with it when I&#039;m off schedule or not going to bed at a decent time. But when I get into the routine, it&#039;s actually not too difficult and I am always just so happy that I made myself do it. 

At the moment, my quiet time is anywhere from 10-30 min. (depending on how much time I have). I&#039;m currently reading through Paul&#039;s epistles. No set schedule, I just read 1-3 chapters each day, stopping if something really strikes me or there&#039;s something in the text that I need to pray through. Next I read a short bit from a book called The Gospel Primer, which has daily meditations focusing on the Gospel and how it works itself out in our lives. These bits take a couple minutes to read and then I meditate on what it said. Next I pray for the remainder of the time, about issues in my own life, for my family, for others in the church, for those yet to know Christ, etc. If anything that I read seems to really stand out to me, I&#039;ll write a couple of verses or a quote or my own journal notes in a book I keep with my Bible. It&#039;s a very simple little routine, with room to either shorten it or extend it as I need to/am able to. I don&#039;t feel upset or behind if I miss a day and I can just pick up right where I left off. In this season of life, it&#039;s really working for me!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-29897" rel="nofollow">@Sarah</a>, Well, this week I've been fitting my times with the Lord in wherever I can. I'm sick and am struggling through the day, let alone getting up early. </p>
<p>But usually, I try to get up a minimum of 1 hour before the kids (not necessarily before they wake, but before they're allowed out of bed- we've trained them to stay in their room until they're allowed out). That 1 hour gives me time to shower/dress, do devotions, exercise (3x a week) and just feel settled before everyone else is up. I struggle with it when I'm off schedule or not going to bed at a decent time. But when I get into the routine, it's actually not too difficult and I am always just so happy that I made myself do it. </p>
<p>At the moment, my quiet time is anywhere from 10-30 min. (depending on how much time I have). I'm currently reading through Paul's epistles. No set schedule, I just read 1-3 chapters each day, stopping if something really strikes me or there's something in the text that I need to pray through. Next I read a short bit from a book called The Gospel Primer, which has daily meditations focusing on the Gospel and how it works itself out in our lives. These bits take a couple minutes to read and then I meditate on what it said. Next I pray for the remainder of the time, about issues in my own life, for my family, for others in the church, for those yet to know Christ, etc. If anything that I read seems to really stand out to me, I'll write a couple of verses or a quote or my own journal notes in a book I keep with my Bible. It's a very simple little routine, with room to either shorten it or extend it as I need to/am able to. I don't feel upset or behind if I miss a day and I can just pick up right where I left off. In this season of life, it's really working for me!</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:29:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i would love to hear about your time with the Lord. I have such a hard time getting up BEFORE the kids in the morning. Do you struggle with this too?  
Also, what works for you in your quiet time?
.-= Sarah´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://tennesseesunshine.blogspot.com/2009/11/just-around-corner.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Just Around the Corner&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i would love to hear about your time with the Lord. I have such a hard time getting up BEFORE the kids in the morning. Do you struggle with this too?<br />
Also, what works for you in your quiet time?<br />
<span class="cluv"> Sarah´s last blog ..<a href="http://tennesseesunshine.blogspot.com/2009/11/just-around-corner.html" rel="nofollow">Just Around the Corner</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.keeperofthehome.org/wp/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:25:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow. totally needed to read this post. I am an overachiever I&#039;d say for sure. I want to do it all and I sometimes think I can, but then I have to stop. I have a 3 yr old and a 1 1/2 yr. old and it&#039;s just not possible to always do everything you want to do in a day. 
Btw-I love reading your blog and am inspired by it often.
.-= Sarah´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://tennesseesunshine.blogspot.com/2009/11/just-around-corner.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Just Around the Corner&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow. totally needed to read this post. I am an overachiever I'd say for sure. I want to do it all and I sometimes think I can, but then I have to stop. I have a 3 yr old and a 1 1/2 yr. old and it's just not possible to always do everything you want to do in a day.<br />
Btw-I love reading your blog and am inspired by it often.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Sarah´s last blog ..<a href="http://tennesseesunshine.blogspot.com/2009/11/just-around-corner.html" rel="nofollow">Just Around the Corner</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.keeperofthehome.org/wp/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Megan@SortaCrunchy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Megan@SortaCrunchy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 19:38:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Such a profound insight and I LOVE the agenda Ryan created for you.  I am totally stealing . . . er, um . . . BORROWING it!
.-= Megan@SortaCrunchy´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/typepad/Tyhx/~3/475U2aFYdYw/words-of-wisdom-from-days-of-yore.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Baby Week: Words of Wisdom from Days of Yore&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Such a profound insight and I LOVE the agenda Ryan created for you.  I am totally stealing . . . er, um . . . BORROWING it!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Megan@SortaCrunchy´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/typepad/Tyhx/~3/475U2aFYdYw/words-of-wisdom-from-days-of-yore.html" rel="nofollow">Baby Week: Words of Wisdom from Days of Yore</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.keeperofthehome.org/wp/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: elizabeth carmen</title>
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		<dc:creator>elizabeth carmen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 18:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, I love this post. What a good reminder it is! I also love how your husband stepped in and helped you--that is a mark of a good marriage and I love seeing those kinds of testimonies :) The world needs more of that! Best of luck simplifying. Not that you have time to add to your to-do list, but I read a book a couple years ago called &quot;Breathe&quot; by Keri Wyatt Kent that talks a LOT about this idea of simplifying our life to the necessities--God and our family. That might be something that might interest you!
Best,
Elizabeth Carmen @ lifeblessons
.-= elizabeth carmen´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LifeBlessons/~3/MbPd71PfZ8A/sweet-potato-and-black-bean-chili.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Sweet Potato and Black Bean Chili Recipe: Add some spice to your autumn cuisine&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I love this post. What a good reminder it is! I also love how your husband stepped in and helped you--that is a mark of a good marriage and I love seeing those kinds of testimonies <img src='http://www.keeperofthehome.org/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  The world needs more of that! Best of luck simplifying. Not that you have time to add to your to-do list, but I read a book a couple years ago called "Breathe" by Keri Wyatt Kent that talks a LOT about this idea of simplifying our life to the necessities--God and our family. That might be something that might interest you!<br />
Best,<br />
Elizabeth Carmen @ lifeblessons<br />
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		<title>By: Stephanie @ Keeper of the Home</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephanie @ Keeper of the Home</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:22:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-29872&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@Karen&lt;/a&gt;, I&#039;m so sorry to hear about your loss. I think it is so wise that you are just taking the time to grieve and spend time with the Lord and with your family. Praying that the joy will come soon for your sweet family!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-29872" rel="nofollow">@Karen</a>, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I think it is so wise that you are just taking the time to grieve and spend time with the Lord and with your family. Praying that the joy will come soon for your sweet family!</p>
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